
On Leaving Church
by: Bill Muehlenberg
There are many Christians who have stopped going to church. They have not given up on God, have not renounced their faith, have not denied Christ, and have not become pagans. They simply are no longer going to church. That this is happening is not a matter of doubt, but why this is happening is in fact a difficult question to answer.
One recent article spoke about this trend. Entitled “The Rise of the ‘Done With Church’ Population,” it looks at this scene – primarily in America – but does not offer us any clear indications as to why this is becoming such a problem. The article begins:
John is every pastor’s dream member. He’s a life-long believer, well-studied in the Bible, gives generously and leads others passionately. But last year he dropped out of church. He didn’t switch to the other church down the road. He dropped out completely. His departure wasn’t the result of an ugly encounter with a staff person or another member. It wasn’t triggered by any single event.
John had come to a long-considered, thoughtful decision. He said, “I’m just done. I’m done with church.”
John is one in a growing multitude of ex-members. They’re sometimes called the de-churched. They have not abandoned their faith. They have not joined the also-growing legion of those with no religious affiliation—often called the Nones. Rather, John has joined the Dones.Read the rest of the article here on the author’s blog.
Here’s a related article.
Loretta
December 30, 2014
Why did I leave?
1. False teachings that caused me great spiritual distress, preached from the pulpit.
2. Hypocrisy in myself– I found myself trying (out of fear of rejection) to act like a perfect Church-girl to please the System, rather than just being myself.
3. Idolatry in myself– I found myself working hard to please and serve “Church” and making a great idol of “it” in my heart.
4. Jesus challenged me to consider what I prefer and what I would choose– Church or Him. That broke my heart and devastated me. Then He called me out. And I left.
Jamie Carter
December 30, 2014
I left because:
Gender-segregated prayer time divided up families
Pink & blue christianity divided up the bible
I am invisible because I’m not married & have no kids
Matters of secondary doctrine were of primary importance
My gender determined my role – I was never consulted how I wanted to serve the church.
The church chose Paul’s teachings as more important than Jesus’ words and examples – except where Paul extols the virtues of singleness because family is God’s order for humanity and not having kids is sinning.
Hyms are boring.
I am done with churches that send mixed messages.
Loretta
December 31, 2014
Excellent Jamie thank you! I hear you and recognize what you are talking about. “Pink and blue chrisitanity”– love it. The “mixed messages” comment, refers to the fact that Church, with it’s many mixed and contradicting messages, is confusing– and “Babylon” the word means confusion. Also, Babylon the concept is a metephorical symbol for confusion and idolatry.